Keep Saying “I do”

It’s a celebration this leap year! My college roommate from freshman year just got married…to the man she’s been with for 20 years. Since what happened in between is her story I’ll leave that to the Mrs.’ with the new last name. And three kids. The first entering our lives at the last weeks of […]

Parasite: “This is so metaphorical”

There are plenty of reviews of the South Korean multiple award winning film Parasite discussing it’s clever delivery of class relationships through the lens of a tragic-comedy. SPOILERS: possibly, depending on what you consider to be something spoiled. There are numerous moments of note. I could probably dissect every scene because it is so metaphorical. […]

3s: The Suns We’re Seeking or My Brother and Me

ONE. I recall the time I was helping my mother outside, there was a hose in hand, probably watering azaleas. Talking about nothing in particular. Probably trying to pry the past out of her. My parents never reveal a thing. You must have had to have been there to know something about them. So I […]

ᗪOᑎT ᑎᗴᗴᗪ Tᕼᗴ ᒪOᐯᗴ 🖤

I don’t need the love you can’t give me anything I don’t already have / can’t take away what’s not here / can’t forgive me for everything I did in your past life / didn’t sit as far back as I can remember / the bus or the train that drove too deep into the […]

🐵Separating: Liam, Miley and the Rest of Us🙈🙉🙊

Often people ask why we didn’t tell them something we saw in their partners that was going to lead to the demise of the relationship. But we all know that even if we tell our friend or family member that their partner is sincerely whack they want to experience it for themselves. Experiencing the lower […]


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