Neurodivergent Dora and the Lost City of Gold

…I am concerned for the young person who has to become an adult in a world that is not the shape of water.

Talk Therapy: What I Haven’t Learned and Other Drugs

I know several people who see therapists. These are the things they have shared on social media about what they’ve learned. Many times you’ll see this as Therapy Tip #1,352. Do you want to be in a relationship or do you just want to be loved obsessively by someone else? Okay Expectations lead to unattainable […]

Colored: Bowie, Iman and the Ridiculous Idea of Being Colorblind

Note: this has nothing to do with actually not being able to distinguish between colors on the color wheel. You know when you’re dating and the person you like asks you what color their eyes are to test your observation skills. Or to validate how much you pay attention; have absorbed the details. They’re brown. […]

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